
So today I’m at work and my cell rings. I look and it’s my daughter. That’s strange, I thought, it was only 11:30AM. Then I remembered she was out of school today. I answered and listened to my panicked daughter tell me she had just been in an accident. “Are you OK? Is everyone OK? What happened?”, I nervously asked. As it turned out, she had rear-ended the truck in front of her. This after a third car had cut across three lanes and made a right-hand turn, at 35 MPH, in front of that truck. He nailed the breaks and my daughter slammed into him. The driver of the car took off. A sort of hit and run.
My daughter’s first words were “Dad, I think you need to come down here right away, I just got into an accident.” Those words are very powerful. Visions of crushed cars flashed through my head. She then asked “What do I do?” I asked if everyone was alright, she replied “Yes.” I asked how fast she was driving, “About 35mph”, she exclaimed. I said, “Call the police and wait right there.”
So, obviously, I dropped everything and headed to the accident scene. When I arrived, the police officer was filling out the paperwork. The other kids mom was there and she informed me that the officer was not very friendly. “Great”, I said with a smile. After several minutes, he opened his patrol car door and walked over to us. He proceeded to inform my daughter that she was at fault. After lecturing her for about five minutes on the rules of the road, he informed her that due to the third vehicles actions, he was not going to ticket her. Thank goodness!
I called AAA for a tow truck. They informed me it would be about 45 minutes. We just happened to be in the parking lot of a great local restaurant, so I asked my daughter if she wanted to get some lunch. We shared a huge order of nachos and talked about the accident.
So here is what we learned from our experience:
- Make sure your teen knows what to do if they should get into an accident.
- Remain calm
- Call paramedics if needed.
- Call the police and report the accident.
- Turn on your hazard lights.
- If the accident isn’t serious and without injuries, move the autos to a safe location.
- Take pictures, if safe to do so.
- Remain at the accident scene until police arrive.
- Have auto registration available. (if applicable)
- Have insurance card available.
- Do not sign anything, unless for the police or your insurance company.
- Don’t admit fault or apologize. (sad but true)
- Get insurance info, address and phone number from other party.
-The officer left out some important information on his report. - Write down what happened ASAP.
-This will make it easier to recollect later if questioned by the insurance company. - Call your insurance agent about the accident ASAP.
There you have it. We did most of the above today, although we had to wing it. I reacted mainly from memory. I have to admit that I did not do a great job of informing our kids of everything involved in handling an accident. I basically have always said “If you ever get into an accident, CALL ME!” And she did! But, she knows what to do now. I just hope she never has to use this information again! Thank goodness she’s unharmed. But, you would think the world had ended to listen to her talk about loosing her truck for a week!
So, do your kids know how to handle an accident? If so, GOOD for you! If not, better take a few and go over this list!
My name is John.






























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Wow lucky she’s ok. Too bad the cop was such a jerk, he could’ve been a much better service to the world of drivers if he weren’t.
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John reply on November 12th, 2008 1:05 am:
Fragileheart, yes, the cop was a class A jerk. However, he did let my daughter out of her ticket. So maybe we will reclassify him as a class A- jerk….:)
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Hi John,
I’m glad your daughter is ok. I’m surprised the person took off, if my vehicle was hit I would of stopped. Maybe they thought they were at fault for slamming on the breaks or something. I guess they didn’t really have much choice either for doing that. It was good that you were able to help out your daughter in her time of need. Some cops aren’t as nice as others, at least no ticket. Hope it doesn’t cost much to repair it. The main thing is that nobody got hurt. Thanks for sharing what you learned from your experience on being involved in a wreck.
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John reply on November 15th, 2008 11:52 am:
Robin,
Well actually the car that left the scene never was hit, he just caused the accident. My daughter hit the truck in front of her, who slammed on his breaks because of the car that turned without warning. Yes, I am very thankful nobody was injured. The insurance companies are arguing over fault, which really lies with the car that left the scene of the accident. In the mean time my daughter has no vehicle. Bummer!
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Glad to hear your daughter is OK. That is most important. It’s usual thing to forget giving advice until it’s too late. But sometimes, it might be better, because your daughter learned from real experience and she will certainly know how to react in future.
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John reply on November 15th, 2008 11:48 am:
Kelly,
Yes she learned a couple of invaluable lessons with this accident. I think it will definitely cause her to be a more cautious driver.
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Great post. I don’t have to worry about this for another few years, but yes, it crosses my mind that she will be driving one day and that accidents happen. I’m glad your daughter is ok.
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Very helpful post. Glad you daughter is okay and wasn’t ticketed. I digged this post and also bookmarked it on Delicious.
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John reply on November 15th, 2008 11:47 am:
Thank you Karen!
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Hi John glad that your daughter was ok. Traffic accidents are no fun and I think your advice on the subject is spot on. I had one in high school where this guy ran a stop sign and hit me. He tried to blame me but I had witnesses. Still he fled to mexico because he had two dui’s on his record so we were stuck with the bill.
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John reply on November 15th, 2008 11:46 am:
Tim,
I know you’re being serious, but that’s too funny, only you could get hit and have the driver flee to Mexico!
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I am so glad your daughter is alright. When my son was still at home, he had been driving my hubby’s little S10 and hit a tree head on after a drunk driver ran him off the road, he was okay thank God. It is very scary to have a teen at home driving out there with some of the crazy drivers we have on the roads today.
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John reply on November 15th, 2008 11:44 am:
I’m glad to hear your son is okay after hitting that tree. That’s amazing! I am a little nervous every time my daughter leaves to go somewhere. She is a good driver, but you can’t control all the crazies out there on the road!
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Thank God your daughter is safe! I for once experienced hit and run. We were blessed nothing terminal damage. accident like this i remain calm but i could not right away move and think the things needed to do. it’s a great points to remember. i pray and hoping it won’t happen again though accidents strike anytime and anywhere!:)
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My dad basically told me the exact same thing you told your daughter – “If you’re in an accident, call me!”
He also did mention the other stuff too, such as having the insurance card in the car, having a valid driver’s license & don’t get out of the car until help/cops arrive (bcoz there is a syndicate of car hijackers where they knock into your car, wait for u to get out to inspect the damage b4 pointing the gun at u & taking off with ur car).
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John reply on November 15th, 2008 11:41 am:
I have heard the advice about not getting out of the car before. We just had an incident locally where a man dressed as a police officer was knocking on doors and assaulting woman. Scary business!
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I am glad you daughter was okay. That’s a scary situation. I have teens and I have never through to talk through with them what to do if they are in a car accident. Thank you for posting the list. I’m going to go over it with them point by point and put a copy in the car.
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John reply on November 15th, 2008 11:39 am:
Carol,
Going over the list with them is a great idea. Also, I had planned on recommending that everyone print the list and place it in your kids vehicle. I realized right after publishing that I had forgotten. Thanks for mentioning it!
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I am glad everyone is okay. I usually panic in these kinds of situations and never quite know what to do so thank you for the great tips.
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John reply on November 15th, 2008 11:55 am:
Thanks Heidi, I’m very proud of my daughter, she didn’t panic (too badly). I thought she handled the situation very well.
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how cool is your daughter for remaining so level-headed and calling Dad like she needed to! glad to hear the worst of it was losing the truck for the week…
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Thanks for reminding me that I need to address this with my daughter. She’s turning 16 on December 9th and has been driving on a permit for a few months now. My worst fear is letting her go on her own, and, of course, her getting into an accident. I hope I’ve covered everything about driving safe, but your post reminded me that I do need to let her know what to do in case she’s ever in an accident, which I pray doesn’t happen… or at least not a major one.
I’m glad to hear your daughter is okay. Maybe you could do another post sometime on how to let go of your teenager once they obtain their driver’s license.
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